Sunday, April 28, 2019

VEX Robotics World Championship


April 24-28, 2019

The Catonsville Robotics Club has only been around for a few years, and this team qualified for States for the first time in Club history. They did so well, winning their division, that they qualified for World competition. Rachael and the team put in a lot of hours after school in Mr. Oehrli's room getting ready. They built a practice field and borrowed equipment from all over the county so that they could real world test the design and programming of their robot.


Louis in her pocket, and the new logo shirt
The team picked the name CHS Steel comets, as the school mascot is the comet. Rachael designed a new logo, putting in many hours and mocking up many options. They printed it on t-shirts and sweat shirts. Rachael was in charge of organizing the packing and supply list for the trip to Kentucky. Each student was responsible for dedicating a suitcase to carry tools and parts with them and it was important to make sure they had what they would need. I was a bit nervous sending her off to Lexington, KY for 4 nights, but also excited for the opportunity.


The sponsors had a live stream set up and Rachael sent me the team schedule, so when the first round was about to start I opened my screen and there she was on screen. I was so excited. I hit play and it was another team. I freaked out a little. I thought I lost her somehow. It turned out her team was just the thumbnail, and her team wasn't competing just then.


this is the thumbnail that faked me out




I got my bearings with the schedule and viewing options and soon I was streaming every one of their matches that I could. It was pretty fantastic. I got the hang of the scoring and strategies and I pulled anyone who was nearby over to watch with me. Even my dad got to watch some when he was over for dinner. The first day had mixed results but they did amazingly well the second day. There were a couple of really close games and a few that they won decisively.



Rachael knew I was watching the live stream, because I would text a comment, cheer or word of encouragement after significant matches or events, such as them tipping another robot over or gaining the center platform. Then in qualifying round #174, the announcer asked to bring our attention to the bottom on the field to a little sign. It said "hi mom". The camera did a close up and I inhaled. I recognized Rachael's beautiful cursive. It made my day. She gave me a shout out. I recorded it and took a photo and showed it to each family member. Megan laughed lovingly at me. It really was a thrill.


The team was ranked around 27th out of 98 in their division after the qualifying rounds. This wasn't good enough to make it finals but it was good enough to be chosen as a partner by one of the top sixteen qualifying teams. They were going to the final round. It was a really close match and was within a few points but the other teams flipped flags at the final seconds and they lost. But even that loss didn't diminish their exhilaration and the amazing performance they put in.

The competition had almost 600 teams from all over the world and Rachael came home with stories of befriending the Australians, confusing conversations with Germans, and lots of fun introductions. Rachael also came home with light sticks that they used during the awards ceremonies. The students spelled out words and pictures across the stadiums. They made rhythms and patterns that moved around the arena. I think she had an amazing time and they should be amazingly proud of themselves.

Sunday, April 21, 2019

Easter 2019

This was our first year as a family experiencing the Easter Triduim as parishioners of Our Lady of Victory, and it was a full experience. Between attending Masses, decorating the church and participating in choirs, we were there alot during Holy Week.  At the beginning of the year Fr. John asked me if I would be on a new team to work on the atmosphere in the church and gathering space. We are starting slowly and for now we are helping to set the church up with liturgically appropriate colors and Holy week certainly kept us busy.

On Holy Saturday morning the youngest 3 joined me at the church to sort through the church flower delivery, and drape the cross in white. Megan helped me with ladder and the draping, while Bridget and Johanna worked with Deacon Dan to continue sorting and pulling the flowers. Megan and I jumped back into flower arranging after the drape was in place. It took us a while to arrange the plant stands and decide where each pot should be placed. We weren't quite thrilled with the end result and made notes of changes we will make to the order for next year. But we stood back, took a final look and decided the altar was celebratory and joyful.


We headed back to the house and got ready to dye eggs. This has been how we have spent every Holy Saturday afternoon for over a decade. We set up the table and then I realized that I hadn't boiled the eggs yet. Opps. I boiled water and put 3 dozen eggs in our big pot. The timer went off and I moved them to an ice bath. Pretty soon Rachael, Megan, Bridget and Hanna were gathered at the table getting their fingers tips colored along with eggs. Then one egg dropped, the shell split open and the contents oozed onto the table. The eggs were only soft boiled. ...  I couldn't reboil the eggs that were already dyed, but I put the water back on and boiled the rest of the eggs until I was sure they were fully hard boiled. The girls were unfazed. I put aside the dread of knowing it would be tricky to peel these and make egg salad in a week.

Megan got ready to sing with the OLV choir for the vigil. She had long practices leading up to Holy week. She added her voiceto bring the congregation through the passion, death and Resurrection of our Lord. The music was amazing. Megan sang on Palm Sunday, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and the Easter Vigil. When we added it up with helping with flowers, it totaled over 12 hours at the church. I really enjoyed attending all of the Masses and being surrounded by the beautiful music. I was happy to provide a coffee drink to help her make it through the 3 hour vigil.

Our Easter morning started off differently this year. Emma was not in the house. Bridget was really upset over this. She kept asking why Emma wasn't spending the night. She really wanted Emma there. The youngest 3 climbed onto our bed Easter morning, we did the ABC game and sang a verse of Jesus Christ is Risen today. Three kids on the bed was less crowded and less cranky but I missed the big girls.

Rachael came up and we went out together to check out the baskets. They started munching on the treats and I put the cinnamon rolls in the oven with the egg casserole.  Emma would be arriving later in the morning. We had a peaceful happy breakfast and as we waited for Emma's arrival the girl's got dressed for church. Megan asked to stay home and relaxed in her jammies. It was so good to see Emma and give her a squeeze.

Johanna is in the Children's Choir and she also had practice and then sang at the 10:30 Mass in the hall on Easter morning. Johanna has struggled with sitting with the choir during Mass. A few of her other Choir Masses wound up with her in tears and coming to sit in our pew. But for Easter she was all smiles, she sang full voice, nailed all of the words, and skipped over for the sign of peace. It may have helped being in the hall and having Emma and Rachael with us.


When we got back home the girls pulled out the new Easter jump ropes and we headed into our neighbors driveway. I tried to teach them double dutch but I am pretty rusty. After our jumping we went in to watch the 2nd  Wreck it Ralph movie and relax together before going the Grampa's. Emma was working in the evening so she was heading back to Towson, Too soon it was time for goodbyes.


My Dad's was comfortable and full and familiar. The egg hunt was fun in beautiful weather. The teenagers did the hiding and the littles did the hunting. The majority of kids have tipped to teens but we filled the same number of eggs as usual and it was so many.  Next year we'll adjust. Then we gathered for grace before dinner.  We sang the psalm response before we ate. It was beautiful and full of harmonies.  Mary now directs 8 of the family in the choir, so it is a beautiful sound that fills the space with praise. It is one of my favorite things.








After dinner the kids kept themselves occupied inside and out, while the adults visited. I was in the dining room and Mary walked in and her mouth opened wide at the sight of a cake with a slice out of it. Katherine had made the cake to celebrate Mary's birthday, Uncle Henry hadn't realized this and had gotten a slice.  We hadn't said we were celebrating birthdays and the desserts were out on the buffet. It was an honest mistake. We decided if we were going to sing to Heather and Mary we should do it soon. We began a search for candles and as we did, my dad got himself a scoop of trifle. The trifle that Will had made to celebrate Heather's birthday. the whole thing put us into fits of laughter. We sang Happy Birthday to Mary and Heather and did a lot of laughing.




Let the Easter Season begin!
Alleluia!



Sunday, April 7, 2019

Stream Clean 2019

April 7, 2019

We lucked out with a beautiful day for the annual Girl Scout Stream clean effort.

Megan, Bridget, Johanna and I donned our boots and gloves, grabbed our trash bags and trudged into the section of Herbert's Run after the GS troop.  We spent about an hour or so pulling wrappers and garbage that was twisted among the branches and undergrowth. We were at the back of the group so the easy pickings were removed already and we did a little more of wedged in trash along the stream.

Megan was a warrior and went after whatever she saw. Bridget spent a lot of time trying to find her footing along the bank but was eager to do the work. Johanna loved being able to scale rocks and avoid branches. I think she did more climbing and adventuring than trash removal but she was pretty independent, which allowed Megan and I to get a few bags worth of junk out of our local waterways.

It is a very satisfying event. There is a visual reward for our labor as we see the pile of trash at the end of afternoon.




Saturday, April 6, 2019

Mary Sue's 45th

2019
I have been friends with MarySue Owens since 1985 when I met her at summer camp run through the Sword of the Spirit Communities. The communities formed as people were looking for deeper fellowship, during the charismatic Christain renewal that started in the late 1960's. My family as well as the Kehrman's were members of the Lamb of God Community based in Baltimore and Mary Sue's family was a part of the House of God's Light in Ardmore, PA. The communities offered fellowship, prayer and the opportunity to praise God, but they also dealt with issues of drama and control and crossed over into many cult-like tendencies. The Communities themselves dissolved or got reorganized in the 90's, but there are facets of them remaining.

As kids growing up in the Communities we got different doses of the good and the bad. We all took away different aspects: cynicism and a rejection of authority figures, a deep understanding of God's personal love for us, and daily prayer habits. A mix of good and bad. But for the kids in the communities some of us also came out of the experience with life long friendships. I am very lucky as I feel like I got all of the best parts of being a community kid, with very little of the negative.  My parents chose to keep our Catholic identity the center of our faith experience, they also chose to be involved but just outside. while most of the Community families lived in the same neighborhood and attend a Community school, we didn't. I had great female role models, learned a joy in God I hadn't experienced before, and a had positive social group, without feeling controlled or deceived. For me it was a great influence and I was blessed with an enduring friendship.

1993 - she came to visit me in Colordao
I met Mary Sue at Camp Maria in 6th grade, and looked forward to each summer when I would see her again. Then the high school youth groups did annual winter retreats and we would see each other again. Mary Sue and I would write letters and call of the phone to stay connected. We also helped at summer camp when we were too old to attend and reconnected at Steubenville Retreats. In high school we got licenses and all of a sudden it was possible to just visit. Mary Sue has always taken me as I am, and in high school I was all over the place. She rolled with my melancholy and existentialism, as well as my intense enthusiasm. She saw me make bad decisions as well as hard positive ones, and she made me feel supported. She always made me feel good enough when I was with her and confident when we hadn't seen each other in forever that we would step right back in to that comfortable space. Plus Mary Sue is fun to be around and willing to experience life around her. She finds a yes and embraces whatever comes with it, making good out of it.


We celebrated her 45th birthday with a weekend away at a beach house. She invited a bunch of friends, some I don't know well but because they have been important to MS they are familiar. It was great to hang out with all of them. Originally I was going to stay for just one night, since Jim was working, but I made some car pool arrangements for the girls and stayed both Friday and Saturday. I am so glad that I did. It was a blast. One friend, Maggie brought wigs and was wearing a pink one (just because) We headed out to dinner and the wig came too. By the end of the evening we were all wearing wigs, singing and dancing in the kitchen.  Saturday included a walk on the beach, snacks, games, birthday cake and lots of stories. It was so much fun to celebrate this woman who I have seen take on life with faith, love and dedication.

Cheers to Mary Sue, a friend who finds YES.