When I went to my OB appointment on her due date 10/31, I was 3cm and after talking it over with my OB and the hospital we scheduled to get things started on the 2nd. My OB wasn't scheduled to come in until 6PM so when the hospital wanted me in at 1PM, we determined that we would get things going slowly.
Contractions got more consistent as Magaly and Heather arrived but they were still mild and I got to catch up with everyone as I rocked in the rocking chair. I really love having a close family and I was so excited we had so much support. Rachael, Megan and Bridget came to check on me every once in a while, sometimes together and sometimes individually. They were so sweet to me. At about 7:30 I started having strong contractions. Everyone in the room could tell the difference and Becky ushered the 3 younger girls back to the waiting room. Emma was very good throughout the day and had just the right touch at the right time. It was wonderful having her there. Jim, having seen me labor multiple times, knew it was getting close and made sure I did what was comfortable. He got me over to the bed because I was obviously in transition. I stopped talking except for one word here or there. I closed my eyes and focused on getting through the pain. My OB came in to check me at 8:00 and asked everyone to leave but Jim and Emma, and I just about cried when she said I was 5cm. There was no way I was going to be able to labor at that pain level for a long time. I think hearing that really made the pain harder to deal with. The OB team left the room because they had another mom delivering but my nurse Jan stayed. Mary and Becky came back in the room. I was so uncomfortable on the bed so I moved to a sitting position on the side of the bed. I remember saying "ow" and breathing and bouncing my leg. I drew into myself.
At 8:17 Johanna was born. No doctor, no prepared bed, just a room full of loved ones, Jim's capable help and our nurse who guided her out. I went from 5cm to delivered in 17 minutes. My OB and the staff showed up, wrapped her up and I got to hold her. Johanna was alert and big eyed but she wasn't crying much and her color was more purple than pink so they moved her over to the warming bed. The room was a mess so it took a little while to get me, the bed and the room cleaned up enough to have people in. Johanna immediately looked better and Jim and Emma kept her company.
When everything, including Johanna and I, were cleaned up Rae, Meg and Bridge came into the room. They were quiet and gentle and waited for a space to see their little sister. It was so wonderful to see the love on their faces. The Aunts came back in as well and got to enjoy our little Pumpkin.





Thank you for sharing. I know you do this mainly for your own family memories-but we are blessed by it and feel a little more connected to you all.
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessed family experience. Thanks be to God.
Love to all